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Parental Alienation is Child Abuse

Parental Alienation is a subject/phenomena that most people haven’t even heard of. Public awareness of this terrible scourge, that destroys children’s social and family welfare around the world, is almost nonexistent.

But the phenomena exists, and is a widespread problem around the world in Human Society. it is also neglected by the Legal System and the Child Welfare Ministries of the countries of the world.

How Parents Abuse their Kids when they Alienate

The incapacity of the legal system to recognise, accept and rule on this matter, is a detriment to society, and is ion dire need of addressing. Some countries are looking at introducing Parental Alienation as a real issue, and even perhaps criminalising it.

To inform yourselves of what Parental Alienation is about, i recommend watching the below documentary about Parental Alienation

Hundreds of thousands of parents and children are the target of Parental Alienation, which is a cause of great damage to the child, and great suffering to the alienated parent.

I myself was a child of parental alienation and abduction through retention (abduction through not letting the other parent have access). My own son was parentally abducted across international borders and i was kept from having access to him throughout the court case, which took almost 3 years. Despite parental alienation being mentioned, and 3 requests for regular interim access orders, the court was unable to process the matter, due to the fact that Parental Alienation is not even recognised yet legally.

Ways Parents Alienate Their Own Kids

To deepen your understanding of this terrible plight of parents and children, i would recommend highly listening to the below TED Talk

Parental Alienation will always be Child Abuse

I would like to quote a statement made at the SSAC 2010 ‘strong stepmom campaign’ ;

“Using a Child to Hurt Someone just because you hate the other parent, really shows how low you will go to hurt the other parent. Do You even care if it will hurt the child in the end? Probably not, because you would have stopped this horrible hate crime by now.”

Parental Alienation will always be Child Abuse

Knowingly or Unknowingly, Intentionally or Not, Parents who deliberately undermine the child’s relationship with the other parent are committing Child Abuse, and a Human Rights Crime against the other Parent, who has a God given right to access to his or her own child.

Effects of Parental Alienation on the Lives of Children

The topic of Parental Alienation is in dire need of wider public awareness and concern within society to put an end to it, and to increase human understanding of the issue, so parents can avoid unknowingly abusing their own children when caught in disputes with the other parent, i.e. Divorce and Custody.


Dads Need their Kids Too
(And so do Sons)

Links for Further Study;

International Parental Kidnapping (US Gov Website)

International Child Abduction (Wikipedia Page)

Convention of 25 October 1980 on the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction (Hague Website)

UK Government Website on International Parental Child Abduction.

International Parental Child Abduction Australia Government Info Site

Jeremy Kyle Attacks Societies Victims and Hails the Culprits

When Children Grow Up Bad, One can Blame the Parents, or Society, or Both, but please not the Child. We all know the saying “Don’t Blame the Dog, Blame its Owner”

But we rarely apply the same philosophy when it comes to Human Parents and their Children. of course that is part of our typical Human Self Denial of Facts, thinking that the rules apply to everybody ‘except us’, or if more arrogantly, ‘except me’.

Jeremy, all i can say to your Uneducated Face, is “Don’t Blame the Child, Blame the Parent”. And maybe i would say you should study the stories of the people you try to get rich on by belittling them, taking the true causes and culprits into consideration. All you did with this particular episode was to show your own ignorance of family welfare and child psychology and the effects of child neglect, or parents not paying attention when danger signs appear in the child’s life. But indeed, the Jeremy Kyle Show, and the Asshole Presenter himself survive from finding poor uneducated victims of society. These victims may seem more like “village idiots” to Uneducated James Kyle and his  Uneducated Audiences perhaps.. jesters to scorn and laugh at, throw rotten fruits at, like in the court of the Kings of Mediaeval Times)

Dumbo Kyle Ignorant Person James Kyle
Dumbo Kyle Ignorant Person James Kyle

Naah Dumbo Kyle (changing your name to Dumbo now, because that is what you are Jeremy).. all you did was destroy any hope that poor girl may ever have of finding enough self respect to heal herself. You stole that from her you mean, ignorant primitive minded ‘know it all i am better than you’ arrogant asshole. Maybe though i should call you ‘Little Adolf’,  as there are rumours around the web, that Jeremy Kyle is the biggest Nazi since Adolf Hitler, which would explain a lot of things wouldn’t it?

Is Hitler my Daddy Jeremy Kyle DNA test coming up next
Is Hitler my Daddy Jeremy Kyle DNA test coming up next

I would personally imprison Jeremy Kyle of the Jeremy Kyle Show, for psychological bullying of a person, who has obviously had no chance to become anything else, and who if her mother was honest with herself, and a good parent, would ask herself the same i would ask myself, if i caught my child on drugs and prostituting themself;

Namely, to think the Following;

“I myself have not been properly watching or noticing what has been going on with my own child’s life, and so i only have myself to blame as a parent, for allowing my child to become like this, without even noticing until it got this bad!”

Jeremy Kyle and the Mother are the one’s who need a good shouting at in the Hot-Seat,  for not recognising that people like this are unfortunate, and need a chance for recovery, that does not include public shaming.

People like this are not shameful criminals, they are unfortunate victims of lower class working society that makes humans into criminals and unfortunates. But it is Society, and the Upbringing we give our Kids that Society has conditioned us to give them, that is the true Culprit and Cause of this Phenomenon of ‘Lost Souls’.

Society Itself is to Blame, and social conditioned ‘Better than You’ stuff like Jeremy Kyle is based on bigoted puny understanding of the causes of such things; Namely, her parents, and upbringing, and how much her mother was there for her when needed.

Irresponsible Mother who never Noticed her Child Going Wrong Until Too Late
Irresponsible Mother who never Noticed her Child Going Wrong Until Too Late

Her Mother was obviously never there for her, seeing as the young lady became a prostitute and heroin addict, without her Mother ever even noticing something changing!

And society’s failure, to produce moral humans, through their schools and indoctrination of the state.. That is the True Cause of a Person’s Downfall, and it is the mother who should be in the Hotseat, not the child. And Jeremy Kyle would be in my Hotseat too, for bullying a victim on behalf of the culprit.

The Problem is that We do not have an Enlightened Society. We have an Unenlightened One. To give an Example, many practices differ from country to country. In my Birth Country of the U.K. for example, in Working Class Society, it is quite normal to tell your own child at the age of 16 that “Well i have fed you for 16 years now but now you have left school you can go get your own place and get a job” and throw your own kids out!!! Commonplace act in the U.K. i can confirm.

In Spain, parents would be appalled to hear such a thing, as they are the opposite in this matter, and would beg their children not to leave. The economy there also requires most people to live with their parents until their mid 30s due to the cost of property rental and the lack of regular employment.

James Kyle Show Bullies Unedicated Victims of Society

Our Society creates ‘Lost Souls’, in the form of Drug Addicts, Kleptomaniacs, People with ‘Perverse’ needs, Murderers, Terrorists, Religious Maniacs, Despots and Rogue Nations.

We make laws based on a belief in certain principles of Morality, which differ from Nation to Nation, religion to religion, Political Ideology to Political Ideology.. Philosophy to Philosophy

The current Understanding of the Media, and of Society and the State, is Unenlightened and Based in Primitive Understanding of the Nature of Our Problems. Our Social Conditioning and our Unenlightened Minds, without Illuminated Wisdom, are the reason why we Humans, from Ancient Times, and Even Now, are still committing Human Folly, Injustices, Persecutions of the Wrong People. We are noi different to the Humans we look back on in Time, where Torquemada Murdered millions of innocent people accusing them of witchcraft or heresy, where our best minds in science, art and philosophy have been murdered or imprisoned and silenced by how may states and governments?  Apart from the General State Lack of Comprehension of the Causes of Society’s Ills and Ailments,and its Unenlightened Approach to Healiing the Sick ‘Lost Souls’ is to Punish them and Put them Down and tell them they are Evil.

the stigmatized

But the Real Culprits never Blame Themselves.

All Jeremy Kyle did in this show, was to belittle a poor unfortunate person, in front of the person responsible (the Mother, who is the first guide and mentor in a child’s life), and blame the victim, whilst portraying the culprit as the one who has been wronged.

This shows just how little tolerance and understanding we individuals have as a race or living beings called ‘Human Race’. We have been taught to believe that it is your fault for anything you didn’t manage to do that fits in with society, And its your fault if you cant get a job, or if you feel so sad you need to get high.  its Your fault if the fact your mum was drunk with men through your childhood with you watching, that you grew up thinking your body isn’t worth anything?

They say “Don’t Blame the Dog – Blame its Owner” (trainer)

Don’t Blame the Whore.. Blame the Whore’s Parents. (trainer)

ITV seek something to get high audience count, but they are not experts in social and psychological welfare of humans, and they do not understand the damage they are doing to victims of society who despite being despicable in their deeds or selfishnesses, were born pure as a baby like all of us, and must have had the wrong mentors somewhere along the way.

Victimised Kid who Became a Junkie Prostitute without Mother Noticing
Victimised Kid who Became a Junkie Prostitute without Mother Noticing

Those false Mentors Are

1. Society and State education, and Crass Uneducated Population with Crude Primitive Cultural Values (‘dont like foreigners’ for example, or ‘ a girl who goes with lots of guys is a slut’ [but a guy can do it and he’s not a slut?] ).  and

2. The Parents. Many Parents just sit drinking and talking with their friend on the phone all day and do not pay attention to their children’s needs, nor do they notice when something starts going wrong with the chid. This is the true cause of a child becoming a drug addict or taking the wrong path in life in any of the many ways we see in Modern Society.

If you agree then tweet this to @itvjeremykyle or to @JeremyKyle and educate them in the damage they do to their chosen victims/protagonists, and to society by teaching the audience that ‘this is ok to put people down when their lives go wrong, and its ok to feel sorry for the person who actually neglected this person and caused their life to go wrong.. “

Completely the wrong way round. As we look at the terrible human rights of the past ages of man, Torquemada’s Inquisition, The Nazi Holocaust, the ISIS Jihad, the Vaticans Crimes, and the Persecution of so many Races and Nations, Human Slavery… we see injustice and dark ages.

Society Doesnt Know How To React Wisely
Society Doesnt Know How To React Wisely, and Often Persecutes Those in Need of Help, due to its Unenlightened Attidudes derived from Social Conditioning

Well, i can say, in 100 years from now, people will look back at this time in History, and see it the same way we look at the Dark Ages, full of ignorance and lack of understanding, and wrongful treatment of people, based in ignorance of the real nature and causes of things.

We are an undeveloped Race, and Jeremy Kyle and his Show, Reflect This Fact, and Stand as a Testament to the Ignorance of Man.

As a last note, perhaps we the audience (or at least those who do watch it and believe this crap), are also mostly to blame for perpetuating this kind of behaviour.. but then again we are also poor brainwashed victims of social conditioning, and the state. So what is needed really, is for a new Enlightenment, of Educated Wisdom, where we understand that all rejects of society, need listening to, not rejecting. They need help, not punishment, for they are a product of the society we make. They are our children, and it is our duty to make sure they do not wander astray. if they wander astray, it is because they did not have the right guidance. Don’t Blame the Dog.. Blame the Owner.. or better said, It’s Trainer

As the Folly of Mankind has Increased. it is Strange to Notice that the Use of the Word ‘Folly’ has decreased at an Inverse rate.

Mans Folly, or Madness. Ignorance Appears as Madness, to the Enlightened Mind
Mans Folly, or Madness. Ignorance Appears as Madness, to the Enlightened Mind

James Kyle Attacks Society’s Victims, and Hails the Culprits. The Culprits are His Cannon, and the Victims are his Cannon-Fodder.